How To Be A Gracious Dinner Party Guest

Etiquette When You Are Invited to A Dinner Party.

1. Always respond to an invitation within a week of receiving it.

You will probably recieve your invite 2 & 1/2 weeks before the party. RSVP-ing as soon as possible gives the host time to plan the menu and favors.



2. Follow the dress code.

Please follow it accordingly and do not be difficult. There is a reason why the host has requested this. If you do not feel comfortable with the dress code don't be a pain, grasiously decline the invitation. I am sure you will be missed.



3.Be on time.

Fashionably late is typically the statis quo and lets face it no one wants to be the first one at the party. What is "Fashionably late"? A half hour window is usually given for dinner/cocktail parties. Be warned though that this does not stand true for weddings, business functions and church services.



4. Always check with the host before bringing a guest of your own.

If you wish to bring a guest as your partner, good dinner table etiquette demands that you should always check with the host first.



5. Dont forget a gift for the host/hostess.

Don't forget the host/hostess! Small things such as: flowers, wine, a candle, champagne, a dessert item, chocolate.



Never come to a dinner party empty handed!!

10 Steps to Dinner Etiquette (When You Are The Host)

This is the time when casual is the norm, but lets bring back some of the elegance and charm in our dinner parties!

Dinner Etiquette When You Are The Hostess

1. Send your invitations out at least 3 weeks before your dinner date.

This gives guests enough time to RSVP and make changes to their schedule if necessary, plan for babysitters. (a good invitee will respond within 1 week)

2. Prepare in advance.

You want to enjoy your party and be with your guests, that's why you throw a dinner party! If there are things you can prepare ahead of time, do so!

3. Think about your guests and what foods they will enjoy.

Be sure to have one meat and one vegetarian dish available to your guests.

4. Your friends are coming to create memories with you.

Make sure you make your guests feel comfortable. Clean your house please. Clear any clutter and put away any personal items that your guests do not need to see.

5. Set the Scene

Décor sets the mood and gives ambiance, so keep it simple but lovely.

6. Make sure to introduce your guest to one another and speak with everyone at the party.

The one thing everyone has in common is you, so make sure to make everyone (included invited guests of guests) feel comfortable.

7. Create place cards.

Not only do people like to see their name in print, but it makes the evening even more special! You can also choosing who sits next to whom, encouraging new friendships, and helping each guest feel like they are equally apart of the group.

8. Create an ice breaker.

This can be a game or a simple mingle. Make sure that everyone has a chance to meet every one!

9. Appetizers anyone?

Simple appetizers and drinks gets everyone relaxed and in a social mood.

10. Don't forget Desert!

Desert is where people relax and talk over coffee or tea and can really get to know each other.

* Let people leave with a simple/small gift as they depart. Remember to keep your theme in mind.

Giving Thanks!

As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.
~John Fitzgerald Kennedy